Awhile ago I talked on here about my uncle having cancer. I spoke to him recently and I was upset to hear that he hasn’t been getting his chemotherapy treatments . I get very upset about this because I lost my grandmother and my mother to cancer and I don’t want to lose him too.
I don’t know how to get him to get his treatments. I have told him how much we need him and how he needs to be here to see his grandson grow but I don’t know if he is really listening to me.

I get so upset thinking about it. I just try to spend as much time with him and have him spend as much time with my children . I want him to be there to see my children grow up. I understand that he is in pain but am I being selfish by wanting him to get treatment to make the cancer go away or to have him here with us longer?

I try to be cheery for the holidays but they are hard for me when I lost my mother and grandmother so close to the holidays and all my memories of the holidays revolve around them too.

I am going try to not get so upset about this instead I am going to go watch a movie with my kids .