This is never easy for anyone

Like I was saying yesterday my good friend is going through a very hard time. She is confused and has been going back and forth about legally separating from her husband. I know that is a difficult choice to make. I got divorced many years ago and although it was easier for me to decide she has spent many more years married than I did. She got used to all the bad moments and has sort of given up on being happy.

I can understand the way of thinking that everything is better than what it really is. I know how easy it is to trip our minds and think that things are not as bad as they really are. I did that for many many years. I would hate to see her put up with more years of unhappiness. I think no one deserves to be mistreated especially for something that occurred while the person wasn’t with the other person. I think marriage counseling might be of some help or maybe a trial separation and trying to work things out slowly might help.

If nothing helps after trying everything then maybe the best thing is to get divorced. I know she doesn’t want to a divorcee but sometimes it is for the best if everything else doesn’t work. I bet it would give her some perspective if she saw this infographic

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